When you run into a struggle. You are not alone. You do not have to do it alone. There are people in your life who want to be there for you and they want to be a part of your life. They are your friends for a reason.
I am not the first person to have the struggles I have. You are not the first person to have the struggles you have. I ask my friends for help when I have hardship and I share with my friends in real time where I am at. Sharing my struggles or requesting help from friends has never been met with denial.
Friends do not leave each other in the lurch. They pick each other up and share when they are celebrating and when they are hurting.
Who are your friends? Who do you share your high points with that is not your significant other? Who do you share your low points with that is not your significant other?