Have you ever notice we find what we are looking for?
When we go to the grocery store looking for milk and there it is. We go to the mall to find new shoes and there they are. We get on amazon.com to order toilet paper and there it is.
We go to one coffee shop to find rude baristas with burnt coffee and there it is. We go to the other coffee shop to find perky baristas with sugar coffee and there it is.
We go out to the restaurant that has good food with bad service. And? Every time we get good food and bad service.
We show up to work expecting the same people to be frustrating and the same people to be a pleasure to work alongside.
What if the problem is we keep looking for the same thing and finding it, not that the thing we’re looking for is always present every time we go looking for it? What are you looking for? What should you be looking for?