Lin Manuel Miranda, Rogers and Hammerstein, Beethoven, Bach, John Williams, Hans Zimmer, and Vivaldi wrote every song, score, and symphony the exact same way: One note at a time.
They sat down with their staff paper and added in note by note, part by part, every melody, chorus, verse, bridge, and prechorus.
After outlining the core of their piece, the added on the harmonies to round it out. Once it was satisfactorily well rounded, they added in the embellishments that set it apart with their mark and style.
Likewise, you are today because you build upon who you were yesterday and who you have been up till now. You have not found a way to jump to a point where you are more developed or fully developed without putting in the work.
Each day of your life is another dot on the staff paper. Each week, another bar. Each year, another phrase, melody, and embellisment.
Like their compositions, your life does not compose itself it is made up of the decisions you make and the way you live your life and there is no shortcut to becoming who you want to be. Each day must be lived in consistency with the key signature and values you want my life to be consistent with.
Some of these decisions are made for you. Skin color. Height. Eye color.
The rest is up to you to maximize the decisions you cannot control for the good of the people that matter most to you. And every day is more progress toward giving them the sweet song your life is becoming. These people are the audience of the song of your life. The people who get to enjoy your life as it plays out.
Who is the audience of the song of your life? What values are you keeping your life consistent with? How are you focusing on making the people you care most about better?